Why chicks dig jerks

Unlike all the saps and phonies the betas in manosphere parlance who buy the sugar-coated, fluffy crap about human nature, they believe they alone see things the way they really are. Is there a way to snap out of that? You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.

You can leave a response , or trackback from your own site. I think low testosterone men attract more higher testosterone women. Today, media can be very inconveniently important to influence woman choice mates. Like here in Brazil, a one italian study if i remember very well found that fertility rates decreased because the soap operas family model, one or two children.

But i think it was more a remote correlation than correlative causality. Is a possible combination of environmental cultural, social… factors and bio-predispositional factors.

I read somewhere that schizophrenia genes can make more attractive facial features in some carriers. Some this combinations are more adaptative than others. I think some and generally, most of high functioning ones psychopath males conquest women prey OR not during period of flirt, because its innate enormous capacity to understand what persons like, dislike.

Psychopathy is a kind of psychotic personality is not?? Explain black male schizophrenic spectra and asian male autism spectra. Keep in mind that the bird-of-a-feather effect is found in every measure except biological sex. They typically lack the delusions of for instance schizophrenics. High testosterone woman want cooperation, low testosterone woman look self-confident man.

They both have that, but I think the resemblance is misleading. A schizophrenic can be megalomanic because he thinks God is talking straight to him, like he is Jesus. The psychopath is megalomanic because he notices that he can break rules and hurt people without remorse — he is strong in a world of saps and cowards.

Autistic males actually tend to have feminised brains. Conversely, studies of individuals with GID have identified high levels of autistic traits [93] and comorbid ASD [94, 95], though some of these results appear to be gender-specific.

Deficits in empathising, a feature of ASD, are also associated with GD, especially in female-to-male subjects [96]. Not convinced. Most of these studies merely ask women what they want, not who they really get with at least for short-term flings. Keep in mind that Dark Triad men can still be successful at getting short-term sex by means of deception.

Yes, this posting is worthwhile and I thank the author for making it. To give this hypothesis a worthwhile test, you would need much more sly measures of attraction and interest. And stimuli more realistic than lists of trait adjectives.

Questionnaires have some validity, more than many think, even when it comes to things like self-rated intelligence. But I agree, questionnaires confront people with hypotheticals far from real life, and this limits their accuracy.

As statisticians say — garbage in, garbage out. What women say they find attractive may not be what actually is attractive to them. If only there was some way to compare the attributes of men who are bona dude more successful with women to those who were less so. As the father of five boys, I suggest that the bad-boy effect does indeed wane as girls get older, just as your mother told you it would.

The bad boys look braver and more adult when they are , but the mask slips as the actual adult tasks of getting a job and taking responsibility come into play. The ability to hack into female responses with the appearance of strength remains, but grows less powerful and females develop resistance. These events get remembered and put into books and movies because the other year old boys harbor the resentment, and many of the girls retain regret and embarrassment.

And possibly a difference between populations, as with paternity fraud. But I would still like a teenage girl cult of at least some such individuals. They drink, do drugs, put nude pics of themselves on the internet, have unplanned sex etc — and then pretend to like Justin Bieber or One Direction? Then again they also take advantage of girls closer their own age, like council estate single mums in their early 20s. Edgy, maybe. They are too desperate and involved.

A bad boy is supposed to play games, be cool, and come out on top — not end up in a body bag. Interesting stuff. One thought: homophily means a bad boy vibe will attract bad girls. And bad girls are just what a pickup artist wants to attract. So if your goal is better pickup artistry, it may be good advice to accentuate that bad boy vibe. What about all the bad boy rock stars and their legions of groupies?

Yes, it could be that a subset of women like bad boys and that they share the same characteristics. Homophily seems to be a fact, at least when you look at long-term relationships, the short-term ones are less researched.

Rock stars have groupies, yes, but their audience seems if anything more male than female. Boy bands are interesting because they are constructed with a clear intention of attracting a young female audience.

Like an unintentional experiment. Be confident and sociable, not nervous and fearful. Pickup artists are only going for the most beautiful women who are a very small percentage of the population so it might not turn up in polls. Admittedly my experience with the manosphere is mainly from reading Heartiste. But he says nothing about why prisons are full of them. My previous comment was just guesswork from observation, and probably biased.

I do have something from more of a professional viewpoint, however, that may be of some use. Each also locates his or her own diagnosis as well, though the results are less predictable. Those currently in a manic episode with symptoms of impulsivity and poor judgement sometimes act similarly, though this is less pronounced and usually more temporary.

Are they somehow projecting something on these men? Pretty much everyone had discarded that decades ago, though there are some dead-enders who still see it that way. Those with BPD do indeed misinterpret reality, sometimes in psychotic fashion, though it is very different than the psychoses of schizophrenia or methamphetamine.

They are about as thoroughly at the mercy of their emotions this particular second as one could be. Past and future mean little to them — except that they have some sort of time fixation on anniversaries and holidays. They live in circular time around the year. New thought. As they also often have long lists of triggers for their behavior, perhaps the cycle of the the year is just one more example of that.

In terms of the attraction to sociopaths, perhaps they are simply more easily triggered — or hacked, if you will — than other females. They must be easily hacked as they project so much. No doubt the fact that they are trapped in the moment will make it even easier.

Do I seriously have to dig up the links to prove that the Kinsey Report was fraudulent? Further debunking links are available… but if I post a bunch, the comment will probably get flagged. Further links may be of interest but it would be even more interesting if you have some newer research on this particular issue. Sorry if I was unclear. So while different from Kinsey in absolute numbers it is similar in relatives. Kinsey retains his reputation despite his chicanery, fraud, and poor science.

This just irritates people like gaikodumaniakku and I so much that we sometimes froth at the mouth a bit without being entirely specific. The effect holds true among homo sap. Women suffering domestic violence also have more sons than daughters, which has led some evolutionary psychologists to posit that they stay in abusive relationships because in the ancestral environment — which, as I noted on NPR, was not very much like the campus of Bryn Mawr College — there were advantages to doing so.

Kanazawa, it should be noted, is a controversial scholar. And women often seek out dominant men of high status as their ideal mates. But not in the U.

Corporate America really is full of girly-men. But you knew that. All of which is to say that there is good evidence and good theory behind the belief that chicks dig jerks — mildly psychopathic men with lots of testosterone and little empathy.

Those who do will have relatively more sons. And what will those sons be like? It is worth keeping in mind that those traits are heritable. Liberals generally accept the biological explanation of human sexual behavior in exactly one case: that of homosexuality.

But human desire is a stranger and sometimes darker thing than we imagine, and certainly a more complex one. I'm gonna be a jerk Yeah, that's right, I'm gonna step on lots of toes. Whoo, girls gonna go crazy for that kind of guy. Baby, I'm gonna act like I don't know you. Not gonna return one of your calls. Yeah, I'm a jerk And it's working out.

Report lyrics. Bill Hicks Lyrics. It's so hard to let him go, oww Well, I don't pretend to understand women's little quirks Just one thing I know for sure, chicks dig jerks Well, I'm sure there's some out there can relate Take the young man without a date See some jerk, some fine fine babe Drivin' away, oww Well, is that a new bruise you got on you? What does it say, that he loves you? Sure, he beats you, but afterwards he cries Oh baby, I could die Honey, I don't think that's nothin' to be proud of I think it's called alcoholism I don't think you should move away Stay with him 'til you're in your grave, yeah "You're so sweet.

You're hurtin' me Ow. Ow What do I have to offer you, baby?